Hey, I’m Steve — the guy behind The Feral Way. My journey reflects my personal transformation and the pursuit of a life filled with adventure and authenticity.
I’m a 53-year-old who’s finally had enough of the daily grind. After decades working in facilities and maintenance -mon call at all hours, chasing problems, fixing things that break, and rarely getting a moment to breathe – I realized something had to change. The experience taught me to value my time and the moments that truly matter.
Like many people, I was taught to work hard, wait for retirement, and hope I’d have the energy left to enjoy life when the time came. However, with the world shifting fast and my priorities evolving, I understood that life’s too short to be stuck in a draining job. So my wife and I made a pivotal decision: we’re giving ourselves 3 years to break free, hit the road in a campervan, and semi-retire on our terms, exploring the open road and embracing spontaneity.
This blog is the beginning of that journey. It will document our experiences, challenges, and triumphs as we navigate this new lifestyle.
Why The Feral Way?
The name says it all. I’m not chasing luxury or perfection—I’m chasing freedom. To go feral is to return to something raw, real, and unchained. For me, The Feral Way is about stepping outside the system, living intentionally, and embracing a simpler life that’s guided by curiosity, independence, and a bit of grit. It’s about reconnecting with nature, finding joy in the small things, and redefining what happiness means to me.
As we embark on this journey, I plan to explore various topics related to van life, sustainability, and personal growth. Expect posts on the best practices for living in a van, tips for financial independence, and stories about the incredible people we meet along the way. Knowledge is power, and I aim to empower others through shared experiences and insights.
I’m starting from scratch—researching how to build a van, learning the skills I’ll need, and figuring out how to earn a living from blogging. This adventure is a blend of challenges and learning opportunities, teaching me resilience. My wife (who’s a few years ahead of me in wisdom and in age) is right there beside me, ready to swap the stress of conventional work for the joy of waking up wherever we choose, enjoying the serenity that nature offers and creating lasting memories.
What You’ll Find Here
I will also delve into our day-to-day experiences, sharing the challenges we face and how we overcome them. From cooking in a small space to finding the best camping spots, these real-life scenarios will provide practical advice and inspire you to take bold steps toward your own adventures.
This isn’t just a personal journal—though you’ll definitely get the ups and downs of my journey, warts and all. The Feral Way is also a resource for anyone dreaming of doing the same. Whether you’re thinking of van life, planning a lifestyle shift, or just sick of feeling stuck, my goal is to share everything I learn along the way: the wins, the mistakes, the budget hacks, the van build trials, and even the emotional stuff no one talks about. I want to create a space where you can find encouragement and practical advice as you embark on your own journey.
Additionally, I will feature guest posts from other travelers who are on similar paths, offering diverse perspectives and advice based on their experiences. It’s vital to learn from each other as we navigate our unique journeys.
I believe we learn better together. So I welcome your thoughts, feedback, tips, and stories too. Let’s build a community of like-minded explorers who are ready to rewrite the rules. Sharing our experiences can pave the way for others, creating a tapestry of knowledge that inspires and motivates.
Join the Journey
If you’ve ever dreamed of escaping the rat race, building a life on your own terms, or just finding more meaning in the everyday, then The Feral Way is for you. Here, you will find inspiration to transform your life, filled with stories of courage and the thrill of discovery. Start here with our blog
Let’s also address the emotional aspect of this lifestyle. The transition from a conventional life to one of freedom can be daunting. I’ll share my reflections on the mental challenges, strategies for maintaining balance, and the joy that comes from living authentically. Together, we can support each other in this transformative journey.
Hit that newsletter subscribe button to get updates, insights, and real-talk straight from the road as I figure this all out. I don’t have all the answers yet—but that’s kind of the point. This journey is about growth, and I’m inviting you to be a part of it.
See you out there, in the wild unknown where adventure awaits. Let’s embrace the unexpected and celebrate the beauty of the journey together.
Let’s build, explore, and live feral — together. Each step we take is a testament to our courage to chase our dreams and live authentically.
